Can u define love?
Wednesday,19th May 2010...14.201....22.35 +5.30
when we started ..simple question was define love ? by our dearest Sai..and i m telling u..then the whole Mahabharata got started....the man who stepped in first was Sunil..ya its me...who said..."love -something which is difficult"...i know answer seems difficult to understand but..i mean a lot in this...bcz its difficult to measure..its difficult to set limit .it is very difficult to express...and yes its difficult to handle ...sorry for being more practical... but anything u do for someone whom u really love its difficult get rid of this...thats what i mean by difficult...
Harish..the most handsome guy in our room ..jumped in with loud screaming...."Love is spontaneous".it was indeed very spontaneous entry....and then Manish the guy with golden words say "Love is doing what other would like you to do"..
and then actual war started..everyone was started to give various names to the word love with various examples and creating very dramatic situations and asking each other how u would response to the given situation and then tell us what u say is that what u mean ? it was amazing specially the time come when Sunil added the word dominance in relationship....he said in real life of married couple u will always find one is dominant over other..and it is required for some reason ..may be to get things done in a way what one desire or to show more control over decisions by leading the way....he was never meant of cutting someone off rudly...its a matter of getting out of situation for betterment of family only...but no ......all are screamed...SAi and Harish had higher enforcement over their voice...they believe all things can be sorted out by true love...which is good to listen but i m asking u is that really practical when both the parties want what they wish..forget about their deserving ...it is already accepted that both are at same level....then someone say he will prefer to listen to his partner and follow it...i think its just a matter of give up...by saying ur in true love ...but this could become ur wekness in long term bcz u will be taking granted for such small reasons if u just ready to accept anything that u feel by doing this i m showing i m in true love......god please save them
here come manish who is very polite and precise about love...mAY be his experience in past made him to say like this...but it was good when he say...."Love ..is unconditional"...do not add constraint to your relationship..which is really very good ..we all appreciated this fact...
suddenly and interestingly some one said i think "Love is disease..." how was that..? because it takes away ur sleep..u become restless,.,always tension tension....sometime too angry..hypertension...sometimes very happy..which is also very bad ..taking care..more than a patient need ..bcz it is going to make out sometime...best part is if u r good and liked by others u can spread it in social community..so can we called it as "socially transmitted disease:"...sounds terrible right? ...and the only thing which we could say..its only disease to which everyone falls ....u know what do i mean by fall....once in a life for sure...and takes its effect throughout..best/.good / bad / worst.... u decide....lot of variety available..
so many more examples and arguments come from various speakers....but what i remember most is..
love is free
love is trust
love is unconditional
love is blind
love is anywhere with anyone in any form
love is accept what we are
love is endless fight for nothing
love is speechless
love is boundless
love is fun
love is more than sex
love is ignorance
love is devotion
love is spontaneous
love is battlefield
love is weapon
love is smile
love is cry
love is mysterious
love is undefined feeling
love is fortune
love is divine
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so on...so many ..i as i have already said ....."Love is difficult"...and most of them have to agree with me at the end..
but most beautiful thing we found at the end of whole discussion is .....
"Love is Life"........go ahead and do it if not yet...enjoy it if u r in....i cant write more..its really difficult.....;)
Thanks Sai,Harish,Manish ,Jatin...for all ur views ,,and and and all that.......thanks guys..u are rocking
with Love
Sunil
if u have something to add...u r most welcome ..
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ReplyDeleteI think sai added the word dominance....or may i was feeling sleepy.............
bro/sis read the blog SUNIL added the word dominance
DeleteSai added the word dominance
ReplyDeleteLove is when the person to whom u love is in ICU and u pray to god to get well soon.
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ReplyDeleteEmbracing Imperfection - ANOTHER COLOR OF LOVE
a story by a girl
When I was a little girl, my mom liked to make breakfast food for dinner every now and then. And I remember one night in particular when she had made breakfast after a long, hard day at work. On that evening so long ago, my mom placed a plate of eggs, sausage, and extremely burned toast in front of my dad. I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed! Yet all my dad did was reach for his toast, smile at my mom, and ask me how my day was at school. I don't remember what I told him that night, but I do remember watching him smear butter and jelly on that toast and eat every bite! When I got up from the table that evening, I remember hearing my mom apologize to my dad for burning the toast. And I'll never forget what he said. 'Baby, I love burned toast.'
Later that night, I went to kiss Daddy good night, and I asked him if he really liked his toast burned. He wrapped me in his arms and said, 'Debbie, your Momma put in a hard day at work today and she's real tired. And besides-a little burnt toast never hurt anyone! You know, life is full of imperfect things...and imperfect people. I'm not the best housekeeper or cook.'
What I've learned over the years is that learning to accept each other's faults - and choosing to celebrate each other's differences - is the one of the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing, and lasting relationship. Burnt toast should never be a deal breaker. We could extend this to any relationship in fact - as understanding is the base of any relationship, be it a husband-wife or parent-child or friendship!!"
Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket - but into your own.
People will always forget what you do, and they will always forget what you say, but they will never, ever forget the way you make them feel
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