How to Read Your Date's Body Language...

Positive Body Language

  • Step1
    Notice whether your date exhibits good yet relaxed posture. A slouched date probably isn't having a good time. A date who's sitting up is being attentive.
  • Step2
    Observe whether your date makes good eye contact. If your date keeps looking into your eyes, you've got it made.
  • Step3
    Is your date leaning forward? Then you aren't a complete stranger anymore.
  • Step4
    Be aware of any physical contact. Holding hands is a great sign.
  • Step5
    Notice if your date has his or her palms up, which indicates a friendly warmth.
  • Step6
    Know that your date is listening to you if he or she nods during conversation; this indicates your words are being heard.
  • Step7
    Pay attention to whether your date is in sync with you and constantly reflecting your behavior. Does she shift in her seat when you do? Does he pick up your speed and tone when he's speaking? Are you both breathing at the same rate? This occurs unconsciously and indicates a good rhythm between you - it's not just a copycat game.


Negative Body Language

  • Step1
    Take note if your date's arms are crossed. This suggests there's a wall between the two of you.
  • Step2
    Beware if your date is yawning. This is a bad sign - unless it's because your date was up all night thinking about you.
  • Step3
    Clue in if your date is nodding too much during the conversation, it means you're talking to the same wall that was created by the crossed arms.
  • Step4
    Is your date looking at everything but you? Be worried.
  • Step5
    Notice if your date is keeping some distance between you. Personal space is one thing, but if your date is not standing next to you, that's a bad sign.

--------------------------------------------Good Luck !!---------------------------------------


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